Remember some people may feel uncomfortable with you and that is ok. You could out something they are scared to see or remind them up close of something they do not have. This potential can cause friction and damage, but that is not your fault or worry. The person experiencing these issues must be able to deal with what comes from them. They must do the work of knowing that they have enough for this world. When someone takes something from you, we need to rely on ourselves that it may or may not end up lost forever. For example, someone comes in and takes our devoted promotion. You took my money, my status, my career, away from me and I hate you for doing this. But did they really do anything? What happens if you end up offered a better promotion above them in two months with higher pay? They did not steal that gift, and you still got a better one. What if they steal your promotion, you leave and the company goes under. You got out of there because you know the business was not protecting you or wanting you to grow. They paid the penalty for not treating you right. You faced the penalty of having to find a better job and at a company that will believe in you. These sound like you are making it off better than what you wanted. This is one of the reasons I say do not worry if it is your only shot. You have no idea that this is your only shot, but the fear tells you it will be. This also will lead you to what is right for you. Please stop making the pieces fit because they will not. Let things fit for you because they will when you are moving correctly. What does that mean? Ask yourself how you should be moving and that should help with that. You already know the answers to these decisions. You might think it is the wrong answers, but they are already there. We underestimate the things we do, again. The choices you make can help make you or break you. If you are going out of your way to try to control things then you will lose all control. You may even see someone gain control over you and start to feel helpless. The moment you inserted yourself into the situation maliciously you dug your own grave. Unbelievably, but I tried things just like you did. I took chances and saw things I never expected to find. I ended up with things I never would want in a million years. That is why this life may feel small, but the impact you can feel and have move mountains. They can change things all around. Remember sports comebacks as a fitting example. The team is down by twenty at halftime in football. Everyone leaves, the people all turn on them, nobody is happy with this team. Then everything changes and you see them go on a run you never thought could happen in this world, but it did. They come all the way back and win the game making the fans believe again. It was always possible to begin with, but you never believed.
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