When we want the best for ourselves, we are showing the world that we care about ourselves. Have you ever wanted to go on adventures, but did not know what you want to do? The effect we can have other people and the effect they have on us is huge. We can make it in life without others. Life is more enjoyable when you have people to share it with. If you have people to share things with, you are a lucky person and should be grateful for it. If you are alone, know that it is not necessarily your fault that you are alone in life. Anything is possible in life, and anything can happen, so it is possible to be alone. When you have people to share things with you have the burden of keeping up with everything that is going on. You need to be making sure that everyone feels appreciated, and setting aside time to being available to them. When you are alone you can have more free time, which can make you develop good habits. Being social is a need, so we must find ways and be more creative in the ways we are social. This is important when we do not have a support network around us. Having a support network will build your confidence and can help make life better when things start to get tough. There are always challenges to go through and it is nice to be able to share that with someone else. When we are alone, we have the ultimate freedom in our life and can do anything imaginable any time of day. When we are alone, we can be more likely to trust the wrong people. Since being social is a need we crave, and if we are unable to be creative finding ways in being social, we could take any interaction with any person, and it might give us a good feeling. We could continue the interaction without knowing the person and that could get us in trouble. One thing to know in life is there is no do overs. No matter what you may wish when the moment is gone, it is gone. The good part about this is we can enjoy the moments that give us joy and try to continue giving out that feeling. We can always show and mask the things about us from the world, but at the end of the day it is better to be yourself. It is scarier, people around you may resent you, this may cause more self-doubt. However, I think the reward of going through this process is too high not to try. You will learn about yourself, see the good things, the things that are scary to you about yourself. You will want to want to run and hide with certain things, but once you show yourself you will experience complete freedom. Remember you are your biggest cheerleader, and you are the one you must live with. The scariest part is being able to see the bad sides of yourself and understanding why you are the way you are. When we understand ourselves, then we will know we are strong enough to make it on our own.