Nobody wants to feel pain but sometimes pain can help us move past things. We use it like fuel to try to continue our dreams. It can be painful for some people just to get out of bed in the morning, but you can always channel that pain into something good for yourself. Recycle it into from pain into a good thing for yourself. The issue that comes up is we are scared to face things because we do not want to feel pain. To be honest, I do not think you can ever stop feeling pain. Pain will come up every so often and catch you by surprise. Remembering the pain, we felt and seeing the good things it can do after could be good for us. It could be relieving to know that we suffered that pain, not for nothing. I like to use the pain I felt to try to help others not feel pain. People will go similar issues that I have but that does not mean that I do not want to stop from warning them about the dangers ahead. Feeling the pain can be freeing, especially when we have resisted it for a lengthy period. Pain can bring in new creativity. It can bring ideas to the surface that you never would have thought about without it. People have talked about their pain through music, movies, books, etc. Pain hurts more than anyone can try to guess. It also has the capability of healing, relieving, being rewarding and life changing. It is all up to the individual to decide what they will do with their pain, since everyone will feel at some pain. The level of pain everyone feels is different, but the feeling is always there. It took me decades to try to find effective ways for myself to be able to heal my pain. I found out when I was supposed to and now, I have an urge to share it with everyone, so that they can heal their pain. I am a creator-type of person and feeling pain in my life has now helped me see all the ways I can deal with it and make it end up being an important experience for myself. You will always remember the memories that hurt you but the level they hurt or control you can completely fade away. Some days we do not feel any pain and other days that is all there is to feel. Dealing with my pain has completed opened all possibilities in my life. It did this because I was and am stronger than my pain. I have the tools to be able to help and focus myself when the pain comes up and it will come up. The resiliency I never knew I have has turned out to be one of my biggest strengths. Pain will either break you or you can fight back against the pain. It never has to rule your life, and you do not have to suffer any longer. Take it a day at a time and turn it into something beautiful.
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