Is it difficult to handle the connections and relations with others? It depends on a variety of things. Some things could be that you are putting out and not realizing or understanding. Other things could be you do not have much in common or your values end up not aligned. Remember that is ok to disagree, but to remain polite whenever possible. I have had instances where just saying hi or trying to start with what seems like a safe question turn into you ending up with your head chewed off. You never might know who you are really dealing with and what they could do. This is why you take the power off them and bring it back to yourself and what you are doing. If someone spits in your face after you asked them how they were doing, we will understand who is at fault or what is going on. That someone is not enjoying your company not even being polite. I will not go out of my way to take you down in any way because what you do is of no threat to me either way. You want to be able to get to others, but they do not want anything to do with it. Our goals do not align, so it will not be working out for either of us. We do not need the drama and cage match to decide things. We need to spend as little time as possible around each other. We can always be an instigator and try to get everyone going, so that our actions feel lost through all the distractions. There are all sorts of techniques that can happen and you will have to go through to make it to the next level. We learn everything about a person through these interactions, and we can learn about ourselves. If we have no patience, it looks bad that we feel disrupted and thrown off by these attacks. If we stay strong and do not try to retaliate it looks like we brushed things off. But you can only brush off so much and so many things. Sometimes we need direct order just to point out what is going on. Not how we are feeling about it, but more in an observation way of acknowledging and stating what is going on. All these things to me can be pointless and tiresome. They are reasons why I want my peace and know what I can tolerate and what needs to feel shoved out the door. There are many lessons to learn throughout these interactions, and I have seen it from what feels like every angle. Just under your part and was the escalation warranted or not warranted. You will know the answer to this. Once you figure out your role in things then you can determine what is the best course of action from here. If you need to improve how you are acting, then you can try doing various things and see if things are improving and if you are improving.
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