Let people act and control the narrative the way they feel it must be. You can relax and let it go and it will not affect you. You can give up the need for everything to feel forced and relax. Save that energy for what you need to be doing and start on that. Forcing things has never worked for me, especially when I wanted something. It sometimes would even do the opposite and put me further away from what I wanted. Now I am trying to be active and aggressive but sit back. I am not trying to force things to happen, but I am still trying to act. Trying to come from a place of love can be difficult. You will have your patience tested at times, you may feel that the other person does not deserve it, too many instances of things not going your way could sour your mood. This is why it is important to never let any of these things bother you and continue acting the way you want. Keep going when you know you are doing right, but for some reason it is be taken the wrong way. Remember that you control who you are, how you see yourself, what are the things that define you. You do not have any enemies when you are acting this way. If you do not have a good relationship with someone, just leave. Leaving means nothing can end up taken from you and it can equal for myself a peace of mind and clear head. It is important to have a clear head when you are needing to focus on something important. Would you rather say something stupid or react in the wrong moment and let everything slip away or would you rather just leave the situation when you now staying is not an option for yourself. You may want to stay and work on it, but staying will never be the right option and that is ok. We do not have to take things personally, but we can still understand what is going on. We can still see and hear the truth of everything that is happening. This is when you can start to be gaining control over your emotions and limiting their impact to hurt you. It may feel bad leaving something that you thought you liked, but it is the right thing to do. This will take you to improved places for yourself because you owe that to yourself. Just keep learning and focusing on what you want and let the other things fade into the background. It can be sad if you feel you are ending a chapter, but it can be exciting the things you are able to move on to. You can keep feeling excited about life because you feel even better days are coming. No more feeling sucked into a bottomless pit because you have better things to be doing. There is no reason to still be getting upset over things that are no longer important.