Let everything go as of we end the year. Try to focus on the good and let the worries go away for a moment. Things are getting better and will be better as we go on. It can be tough to think about problems going on right now, but it is ok. One of the things I like the most is I understand what I experience in my life. I know now to take it easy and appreciate myself. Even when things are not going the way that you want them to there can be something good for you to appreciate. I have talked to other people and seen worried faces or feeling trapped about the future. It is great to be there for yourself and understand that no problem is too big for you to handle. Going into the next year I want to appreciate my ability to think of a plan when things do not go my way. I will continue to adapt to what is going on. There are people belittling, insulting, using the way they feel about themselves and trying to pass it on to other people. They would rather do this then deal with their issues. This is not an effective way to deal with problems because this means you are an avoidant-avoiding the issue. The solution to fixing that would be trying to not avoid the problems as they mount up. Dealing with them or having a plan you can follow to solve them. Having plans and adapting to change can save you overall and some people will not be ready for what happens. I like to be prepared and thinking about solutions to problems whether they are my own or others makes me happy. It stimulates my mind and lets me tap into the strengths I have. I just hope that you are not the problem or adding to someone else’s problems. That is why it important to have good relationships with the people around you. You need to be able to depend on these people if something comes up so that is why it is good to be around people that bring you up not down. It can be tough seeing someone’s unpleasant side in a certain moment, but it can change the way we think about things. It can also be life-changing when we see the good qualities in the people around us. That can take us from being down in the dumps to feeling able to take over the world. I am a loner, but I hope that you have support with the things you deal with. I have the support to make it through my life so I will be fine. If people abandon you, it can be tough to deal with and continue to trust others going forward. What we need to do then is take things slowly. Over time and you can look this up, you will see a person’s true colors. It can be the best thing or worst thing you find out about them, but you will. It is important to be around people that build you up because if you are not then it can also take you down.
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