Wake Me Up in the Summer

Becoming free from what society expects from me and embracing who I want to be is what is making the difference in life. There is hope and now is the time for planning and excitement. The things that make us feel good can be big or small, but the important part is the impact they have on us. I have found an enjoyment of reading again. When I was a kid one of my favorite times of the year was when we had Book Fairs at school. Now as an adult being able to find anything that you enjoy or wanting to learn more about and exploring it. Being creative brings a purpose that I like and want to know more about. Pursuing what we are interested in, changing interests, figuring out things about ourselves. When you are different things can be weird, and you do stick out. People want to know what you are doing it is because you are doing something right. When people dig you for information about yourself be careful. They are trying to find out if you have a weakness and how to exploit it. This is why understanding and embracing yourself for your differences turns a weakness into a strength. You are getting rid of the power that people may try to exploit you with. Remember to survive we need haters and that can help us focus back on what we need to. One of the biggest things I have had to do is calm my reaction down when something that is negative happens to me. Give it some time and it can be a good thing. I did not understand this when I was younger, and I had a victim mentality. Nothing was hurting me, but it felt at times scary for me. Now I would say to myself to relax and let the things we cannot control take place. There is no reason to fight something that will happen with or without you trying to do something, so embrace it. These moments have turned into positive memories for me and when those moments come up just take a pause on life. Do something else and then come back to it later. The best feeling is to be in good company with people that you like being around. It is a great feeling to be listened to and understood. When you make the time to help someone you could be making their day. Remember do not ever involve yourself in other people’s business. If they ask you for help, then you can help them. People want the best for themselves but finding the best ways, habits, going about it can be the tricky part. When you are having issues with someone remember to try to be the better person, unless you are in harm. You can do the right thing for yourself, but the right thing is different depending on the person. Use your best judgement with each situation. Having a good balance of stress and relaxation helps keep you on your toes and appreciate the moments you experience.