Life can be a place where everything you dream of happens, where everyone you love celebrates with you as you continue succeeding in life, and it can also be watching you rise to the top only to fall back to the bottom. What are you waiting for in your life? You have a chance to make something of this moment and do something big. Everyone can do something no one has ever seen before, tried before, accomplished before. To be successful, all you must do is measure up to your definition of success. People have something they want to do, but many will push them off until it is too late. You only get one life that you can remember, so when you want to do something, you should try set some time to do it. I want to go to Italy, because there is culture, cities to explore, and accomplishing a goal of mine. How do I end up there? I need to be able to afford the trip, because its not going to be free. I need to be able to purchase the tickets, set myself up at the hotel, decide what I can do with the money I have saved. These are just some of the issues I will have in my way to achieve a goal. Discovering new things can be an effective way to embrace that growth mindset you may have heard about. You do not have to travel if you do not want to do, but you should think about what you want out of life and how you can get it. Whenever, I think I am missing something I try to see if I am being set up for an even bigger success. Everyone is on their own adventure, so there are billions of adventures going on right now. Some would scare the shit out of everyone, and others would make people get inspired in their own lives. Many people are scared to take risks and go where they would truly be happy. They settle for something less and try to make themselves feel good, but at the end of the day they can feel bad. Do not feel resentful for your choices or circumstances in your life but use them as a learning experience to improve your life. Why did this go wrong? Because I may not have done this enough or I could have done this and move on. Study why YOU felt something went wrong, and then move forward in your life. Noone is in a race to be the best human being on the planet. There is no measuring stick for that. Is it the person who does the most charitable work? Maybe its the person who has the most money? Lastly, is it the person who has done the most unselfish deeds? No matter what you compare in your life someone will always be better than you in a certain way. Do not take it personally but accept it and realize that your adventure is what matters.