Understanding Human Nature Can Be Powerful

When you are not having a good relationship with someone, whether it be your friends or family or anyone in your world, what ends up happening next? How do you treat them when you are going through differences vs after? I like trying to understand people and what makes each of us happy. Trying to interact for me can be scary but trying to understand has always made sense. When we are wrong and make mistakes, it is important to take accountability and face the consequences of our actions. Whatever is getting you into trouble or standing in your way is what you should be working on next. For me it continues to be my anger and how I react to things. Staying calm for me would be my best friend. What is getting you into trouble and how do you plan to work on it? Working on things that are troubling us or making us nervous is good for our confidence. You would think what if I failed again and will it shatter me into a million pieces? What if you pass it and it heals your heart making you feel stronger after? The way you look at things will improve your thought process of thinking about positive things. This will lead to you making better decisions. Remember the body needs your support in eating right, exercising it both physically and mentally. The brain needs to stay stimulated. All these things can lead to you feeling better and treating yourself better. If you do, make a mistake along the way own up to it and move on. People do not have the best history of using their empathy and continuing to be understanding but you can always be the change you want to see. I want to be patient and understanding, so I try to treat others that way. I can remember at times being around people who would not be patient with me and that feeling felt horrible. This is one reason I would want to make it easier for others. Some people want to make it harder for others because they may feel it was hard for them, so why should they get a break. I am from the point of view of understanding going through tough things and wishing for no person to have to go through it. It can make you stronger but when you have seen things around how people have acted it makes you not want to have another person go through it. I would love to prevent myself from being unsafe positions but that just is not possible for anyone. The best we can do is try to make sure we are able to succeed. We must understand that everything may not be in our control, but we need to do the best with what we are able to control. Finding a way through life has had more twists and turns than a rollercoaster at Cedar Point. Remember to take it easy on yourself, accept responsibility when you mess up and try to take it easy on the next person.