What is most important to you? What do you choose to care about? Why do we all act the way we do? I wonder sometimes whether there is anything called normal out there. I think normal is doing the thing most people would do in the same situation. When you do something outside of the normal then things can get interesting depending on who you are dealing with. The best thing can be to let go or it could turn into a situation. The crazy thing is one minute you are just minding your business, and the next things have changed. Have you ever felt out of place, so much it was tough to go outside? That can happen even at times. When the light is too bright for you, but you must always find a way to come out. When you feel hurt it does not give you the right to go out of your way and hurt people. I have found that opposites have attracted at times in my life. I have had to deal with people, and I never understood why I would end up in situations with to them. It seemed to me now to be a bigger purpose. Now I can see what I missed before, and I can avoid this stuff going further. The simple thing is usually the best thing and that is get away from the people that are not meant for you. There is always enough room for everyone, but human nature comes into play then. There is no law on how much we want. I have always wanted something at every point in my life. That means we are all continually thirsty and nothing will ever be enough to get rid of it. This is why we must be able to deal with that urge in the right ways and not let it poison our minds. We deserve to have what we want out of life, and we will always want something. The terms triggers, mental health, gaslighting, were not big when I was growing up but now, I can see all these things everywhere. What do we need right now? Think about whatever is most important to you right now and that is what you want. Go after the things you want and do not listen to anyone bringing you down. I do not care if you win a million dollars, but I can be cheering for you too. I have heard about the crab mentality where we never want someone to be doing better than we are doing. This type of thinking means little and would be better spent on improving and doing the things that are best for you. Why is the best thing for me to focus on Ralph getting a Corvette, while I am driving my Minivan. If I really want a Corvette, I should be focusing on how I can find ways to get one. The power of thinking and where you spend your time thinking can make a significant difference. Spend your time wisely because we do not get it back.