If you think something is missing in your life it is. You can listen to yourself, and it will show you what it is. If you think life is good, it is. To understand the power of your thoughts and what you can have for yourself is so powerful. Life will work for you and help you, but it must know what you want. I know some things that I want now but still feel lost. It is always ok to not know where you are going if you are trying to get on the right path. Effort is extremely important in life because it shows us who is there with us and who is not there. Even if you have not seen someone in a long time you can still feel connected over time because they will feel like family to you. I believe you can go everyday talking to someone and not feel connected and you could go a long time without talking to someone and still feel connected. Something about the way we bond with certain people brings it out, I feel. It is a variety of things that can make us feel connected to others. We feel connected through entertainment, education, values, etc. When we do not feel connected something is missing or just does not feel right. That person just does not check all the boxes. Everything is good but we can get along without having to get along. Everyone wants to be the person that is right all the time but cannot be. It can hurt our pride and ego when we admit we are wrong. I know I have snapped and gotten angry admitting I was wrong and that was because I felt insecure about being wrong. There is nothing to feel insecure about being wrong. Feeling insecure to me is not even a big deal because I know what it is like to go through that, and I know most people go through it as well. You are not alone when you get insecure about things. People do not openly talk about it, but it is there, and I see it. That is another reason it is good to go your way. If you can try to move past the feeling of being insecure and not caring that others know it is ok. I have been there where people got all up in my business and tried to find out my weaknesses. They can find them out all they want now because it does not matter. You will be ok when you understand yourself and feel you have a firm foot on the ground. The important part is you already know who you are and what you can and cannot do. You already know the truth where others do not. So, you have the most information and have the most power to make sure you know you are ok by being who you are. The best thing we can do is relax and let that part of life go without trying to control it. You can spend effort improving yourself in other ways and forget about the insecurity.