Do you trust the things going on around you? Do you feel you are secure and in a healthy place in your life? I know that I am feeling better now and more relaxed which his needed. When you seek balance then everything can be good for you. Thinking up ways of staying happy and what makes you happy is good. People able to talk and relate to others about the things that are important to you is especially important. We all want to feel accepted, and it feels like a nice comfortable home. If you are not feeling accepted, then be the one that wants you to succeed the most. Remember too many people end up focused on others and what they have vs what the person has. Half the battle is narrowing the focus from everyone to just yourself. Time is important because nobody knows how much you have left. It is good to do the best you can with as much as you can. That is one reason it is pointless to compare. Comparing will be good when it motivates you to change or start something. It does nothing when you are using it and making yourself feel bad about where you are. That is why take the time you would spend worrying about feeling bad and what others have and invest in yourself. Investing in yourself has so many benefits and really no downside. You need yourself to be able to succeed in life, so why not invest in yourself and make it an enjoyable time. What do you need to get where you want to go? I need to believe I can make it, have the skills required to do it, understand that growing can be difficult and accepting whatever happens is necessary. Be the life jacket that you would want to support you. You would not want a life jacket that does not fit or does not work for you. You want one that is perfect for you and will support you. It is hard to put this kind of pressure onto someone else, so I would say this is best for you to do. I see a lot of people under stress right now, including myself at times. What I would tell them is to keep making the best choices for you each day and patience is important. I do not hold any grudges for anyone that I have run into in the past. Whatever happened was for the best and has helped me grow up, which was extremely important. You cannot really get mad when the things people made you face would help you out the most. The hurt led me directly to what I need to heal and then I just go from there. You just need to be careful who you let see yourself, but you should always share yourself with others. Letting the things that worry us the most eat us alive will not help us. Facing them directly and understanding their power is what will help us the most. Understand the power and then remove the power it holds over you. Time for summer to show up soon!