The Confident Man is Lost

I like to believe that the world will work for you from the inside out. When you work on and continue to improve yourself then you can see big improvements in your physical life. Something about staying true to yourself will rub off on the right people in the right ways. Then, things can work out for you. For those of you saying that you are good, but things are not working out for you think about why have things not worked out for you? What did you try to make and get the things you wanted? It may just be that you are having to wait a little bit longer. The thing you are getting is even more important and bigger than you imagined. What if things did work out for you? What if you made the right choices and everything went as you imagined? Life can be as you imagine but you must be able to believe in it happening for you. If you do not believe in the things for yourself nobody else will do it. I know people have told me for a long time that I need to believe in myself and have more confidence in myself and that was true. Its not that you must put your ideas, achievements, etc. in peoples faces all the time. You have this coolness about you that makes you feel good. Like when we dress ourselves and wear certain clothes, they can make us feel more confident. That is why when you dress to impress you have a chance of impressing people. You will feel you fit the part. There are all sorts of things that can make you feel more confident, but the best is when it comes from inside yourself about yourself. This reassurance that everything is always ok and go with the flow. That is the toughest part because we all have our bad days and weak moments, so staying on it can be tough. What is it about life that is giving you the most difficulty? It can be difficult asking for help or when your ego gets in the way. It can be difficult when you are wrong or when someone else is criticizing you unfairly. Being able to battle all these things can seem very overwhelming at once. You must choose when you can fight them and when you need to rest. All these things can get in the way of life that are outside of your control as well as the things that are within your control. The confident person will ask for directions when they do not know where they are but act like nothing is wrong or out of the ordinary. Slight differences in our approach, style, personality can change everything in our lives. Being able to see what is going right and what is going wrong is important. If you want to improve you need to see what happens in different situations and decide if you felt confident and if the interaction felt positive. Life is valuable, so please never waste it.