When people support you then you will be able to see it on their faces. You will be able to notice and tell when having conversations with them when they have your best interests at heart. It is important to continue looking for this if you do not have it. If you have it, then you better not take it for granted and enjoy the good times. We may not wish ill on anyone else, but they may not know that. They may have a different system and could wish ill on you. That is unfortunate for them and is none of your business for you. When people upset us, we want to get even, but things will work themselves out. When we take things into our own hands, we risk the chance of something bad happening back at us. Life is already tough enough without trying to add more to your plate. Things can be rocky enough as it is, so do not try to rock the boat anymore. For those of you that are in a comfortable spot, you can share with others how you got to this spot so that they can try to follow you as well. You can also stay quiet, keep it to yourself, and continue to climb higher. Each person will think differently about this and neither will be right. Life has been a lot of guessing and relying on my instincts to try to make things happen. It has been going through multiple stages and seeing how each stage can build and destroy you to mold you into who you are today. If you go through too many tough events at once, you could become cold, detached, scared to face new challenges and that would be understandable. Remember you do not know what things people go through, you do not know if they are desperate or not, you may not know what their intentions are. You can up front with others and see what happens or hold back and see how things go. The things that make you special can continue to grow as you go on. I am an adult but want to have elements of my child-self, so that I do not grow too stale or boring. It can be good to bring some excitement into your life and do not listen to the others hating. Remember that is your fan club and they will be with you forever, so give them a good show. Taking things for granted is never a clever idea, so why do not we erase that from our life. Acting arrogant and disrespectful can get us into trouble, but do we want to risk it anyways? Life is short and may only have this moment. On the other hand, is this really a good move by us? When you act out you are to me making yourself smaller and not bigger as you are intending. We can all do better, but we choose who we want to be with the decisions we make. Over time we see the patterns and look to see if what we have chosen was the right thing.