Have you ever been about to do something had it planned and then you suddenly did something else instead? Have you ever felt punished for doing something else instead? I have had my share of weird times but have found when I set out to do something and then do something else, I can end up having a tough time. It has happened enough for me to notice the pattern and not sure where it is coming from. What I have felt this do for me is to be more aggressive when I decide on something and deciding it was the best thing I could think of at the time for a reason. It is weird the things that can pop up and the things we do and do not think about. We all have different things that bug us and that is how we can find the people that make us our best. We can see their point of view and can see why that would bug someone. We can make a connection with someone then by understanding and listening. We all go through similar issues, but the way each of us deals with them can be interesting. Especially when multiple ways work out for different people. It always helps make me open my mind because if I were not open to the possibility of something happening then I would immediately reject it. We like people that have multiple layers because it can keep our minds guessing. Some people like their minds to continue thinking and others do not want to turn that button on. We go through life, and we find what works for us and what we never want to go near again. This can include people as well as situations we have faced. You think nobody may be listening, but I would think you need to give people a little more credit. They can sniff out what you are dishing, and people will always know when something is off with you even before you do. We need to get our business done and without any unwanted attention. The sun may be setting, but the feelings and thoughts never go away. When you ignore an important thought, it will get louder. The thing is we can go out and do something different than we set out to, but what if what we set out to do was something that we did not realize was important to our heart? Then we would think to keep going and not go an unusual way to the destination. An example of this could be I want to have a pizza, I can see what I want, am hungry and determined to get it. Then when I go, I see a lineup, but next door I see no lineup and go there instead. What will happen to me is because I went somewhere different (off the plan) I will end up waiting longer or something will happen to delay it. Things and people are not always as open and easy as they may seem. When we dig deeper, we can see the reasons why.