Let us have a party and invite everyone who wants to come. I want to know how I can make it big on my own and make more money for myself. Everybody has responsibilities they need taken care of. They need more money, more support, more attention, more time. What we need to be doing more of is looking at everything we have accomplished and where we are today. We need to know if we not where we want to be it can always get better (test me on that if you do not believe). Things can always go down and it is the rollercoaster times that make life exciting. It is true that you can plan everything, do everything in your power. Sometimes things will not turn out the way you expect. The people that I find to be most successful are the ones that understand that this can happen. Then they realize that you can make things go even better. I have found life to be like the waves in the ocean: enjoyable, rocky, can change at any second, but worth the ride. I may not be rich or leader of this or king of that. Understand that good things have happened to me and good things can continue to happen is important. When I see what I think of people getting upset over something that is not a big deal to me. It may be something important that to the person that is getting upset that I know nothing about. What I need to do is stop judging about the persons issue and how I would deal with it and try to understand why the person feels the way they do. I want to try to look at people and see if I can understand their motivation for doing something before, I would judge them. Everyone judges other people, but everyone does not admit that they judge other people. We are all in the same game, so when we see someone acting a certain way a light bulb turns on and we go oh they want to do this. One of the best things I enjoy about other people is the impact on any interaction at any time. It may be you are on your way to work when you see someone in trouble or notice someone going through something. When you have a good understanding of what you think they are going through, you may approach them and offer your help. This is something I would never get tired of seeing. I heard the director Kevin Smith after he had a heart attack say something I thought was cool. He said that after his heart attack he was able to appreciate all the good things and positive things that were there in his life. Before the heart attack he would complain about certain things he did not like. After it he realized that complaining was a waste of time. It is important to be the change you want to see in the world. If you are having a fun time, share it with others. If you are going through something tough, share the lessons and what you can get from the experience. Life is a rollercoaster that can lead to rewards and regret. Please proceed cautiously.