We can think that the qualities that we have are not important or do not add value to our lives. I am sorry and think that we would be dead wrong with this thinking. The more I did not believe that I was important or had things of value, the more that came across and terrible things ended up happening. Now, when I think about the things I have that are valuable the list can go on and on. If you want to have a game just pick one thing each day you are impressed with yourself about. You cannot repeat the same quality that impresses you, but you would have 365 things to be proud of after one year. That is certainly plenty of things to be proud of yourself for. That would make you feel better, more at ease and your confidence would grow with yourself. It is extremely important how we view ourselves and this to me is one of those things that can make or break us. I have seen both sides because I like to test the waters. Do not take anything you do lightly and respect what you have to give the world. If someone thinks they let themselves down or do not have the quality or whatever to make it, I will tell them please do not think that way. What we think can end up becoming our reality and that can be scary when you think of the wrong things. Picking yourself up when things are tough is going to be a reason that you can be successful. Understanding your strengths and weaknesses and appreciating everything will help set you apart and can bring in success. When we take the time to look at what we nee to do and then go out and do it our way, we will not lose. Have you ever noticed at a job that you could be doing the same task as someone else but doing it in a completely unique way? This is why to me there is no limit to the success table and who gets to sit at it. You can think that there will be no room, or you will not get access but that will not be happening today. If you want to cut someone out, cut someone out. It is not up to us to be the revenge police and make sure the person gets their dinner. Over time the roles could reverse for you, who knows! That is why it is relieving that you just must focus on yourself and what you need to focus on. The other person is going to determine whether you succeed or not the same way a chair in a room will decide that for you. I wanted to pity myself and think that others can take away from me, but that just is not true. That is a myth that does not need to keep replaying itself. You determine whether you will make it not some person or some obstacle that gets into your way.