Stay calm and relaxed and you will win the day I have been told. Make sure to understand your limits and know that you cannot help others when you are out of energy. You are of no good to anyone even yourself and you must rest and get back to it again recharged. The magic that comes through the world really feels like magic, but sometimes it can feel like it has been a long time since we have gotten to see it. When it is happening it is incredible, the feeling is unreal in a positive way, and anything seems possible at this moment. We are hurting and we need to heal this is true. While we heal, why don’t we take in some of the opposite of what we feel are getting. We can give ourselves what we feel we deserve or something close and try to go forward this way. I may not be able to buy the New York Yankees yet, but what about starting off by going to a game? If I like computers, I could get myself familiar with the different parts of the computer or different functions, and then I can move on to learning the different programs needed, etc. Remember there is so much information out in the world, so that is one of the resources we have that we can use. When are younger we may not have as much choice with what we are able to absorb, because of our parents and others influencing us. When we get older, we have more of a choice, and we can focus on the things we like and want to learn. We can avoid whatever does not excite us and live how we want. Take the pain that you feel and put it into something you love. Take the hate you could have and put a spin on it. Nobody said you must indulge and play the game. You have options to choose from and then from those options other things will come up and so on. Life can feel like those stories where you choose what the character does next. Well as an adult, you choose what the character yourself does next. It is beautiful when it works and a nightmare when it is not working. When it is not working YOU CAN make it work again. There are too many scenarios possible, but there are likely multiple ways out of a problem. We all think things differently, so that is why I say there can be multiple ways out of a problem. One issue is do you think what you are doing is even a problem? How much is it impacting your life and is it giving benefits to you more than taking away anything? If you are in a rut do not do the same thing then, do the opposite. I can see cheat codes to the problems and remember nobody answer is right, but you can decide which action to take. You do not know the result, but it is knowing what action to take that gets the ball rolling.