When you break out what you got make sure you pick something good. Pick something that uplifts you and gets you going. What do you want to bring to the party? A good attitude, excited to participate, or are you coming to bring down the house? That is the questions I think of when I am meeting people or getting to know them. Are we going to excite each other, bring out good positive things for both, and will we leave feeling fulfilled and like we have a new friend. Those are also some of the things I think about as I am getting to know people. We all have things that we do and that people love about us. Did you know if you love something truly there is a way to make other people see the same good things that you do? By showing off your skills, personality, excitement, and desire about whatever you are talking about you can engage others and make the feelings flow to them. I believe this and the important part is about bringing out YOUR excitement. The bonus or cherry on top of the sundae is that you can get others excited as well and develop closer bonds. Now of course if you prefer to be alone there are many ways to do that as well. I have found keeping the peace between my inner self and making sure my physical self feels taken care of will bring the balance and positive impact that I want. If one of them is upset or not taken care of you will eventually suffer for it. Basics get you the bucks! Keep it simple and let the ides flow for you! Go invent something that will be in basements around the country next year. Try to make the next development to help others. The people that say you cannot do it may not be the ones to come along for the ride. That can be a tough pill and so can never doing it and feeling lost inside. It is up to you to know what you want. Knowing what you want makes everything else easier. It makes the excuse of “I do not know what I want” to go away. Making one decision will lead you to another one and another one and that is what will set you free. The decisions you make are for your freedom, for your peace, for your sanity. I challenged everything and am now getting to the point of understanding for myself that believing and not fighting the things I want can bring them to me. Knowing what I want, desiring what I want honestly, trying to show it to others in meaningful ways. These are the things that are starting to make me feel at home again and healing me. Feeling more power and not less changes things. Having a better mindset and knowing your worth changes things. The lies others talk about you and the truth that you know changes things. You do not have to escape, but just maybe believe in yourself. Would this be effective?