We can take people and things for granted but then we recognize what we have lost. It is ok to lose people or things and that will happen over time. Even if you do not do something dumb people will come in and out of your life and that is ok. It is important to enjoy the moments you spend with them and to have good memories when you are apart from them to look upon. If you do that, they never will ever leave you. Every person comes into your life for a purpose and for a set amount of time. It is great when you have those connections that are strong and where you know everything about the other person. That is one thing I know that humans crave is social connection and social acceptance. When you can share things with another person it can feel like anything might be possible. It can feel like you have known someone forever and you want to spend as much time around them as possible. If we do not get this, we can feel irritated, upset, feel like something is missing in our life. It can be hard to get through the days, but you do not need anyone to be able to survive. Still, we want to be able to share our lives with others and so we will continue looking for this person. It is the needle in the haystack that each of us gets to go through. My strength will always be something that others underestimate about me and that is ok. It is not that I know I am always right or anything like that but when I am wrong about things I will accept the consequences. I will admit I am wrong and become accountable for my actions. The best things in life happen when we are free to be ourselves. It is very vulnerable to get to be like that, but it is nice when you can be yourself. People are also scared of everyone finding out about them but what if you are good person and people do accept you for who you are? Whether if you are the most popular person in the world or the least popular nothing changes your situation. You are still a human being and still go through the same celebrations and heartbreaks everyone else does. People can say you are different in a million ways, and they will, but they will be wrong. Nobody can take away anything from you. They may want something from you or need you in some way, but nobody can ever diminish you. That is one thing I have learned over time. They may do it daily, every interaction, but they can never succeed. Let people believe the lies because you know the truth. The lies cannot hurt you because your truth is your forcefield. Lies can never destroy that. Lies can confuse and make things cloudy, but the truth can make everything make sense. That is another thing I have learned over time.