My Life is A Failure

First impressions I felt like were always tough to go through. I tend to get in my head and then would not focus on what the other person is saying and become lost. They are important because it does not take long to notice someone else. Their body language can show you everything in a short amount of time. Once we decide what we think about someone reversing the ideas become more difficult to get rid of. I always liked being able to read others and try to understand where they were coming from. That was the downfall of it. Wanting to believe in someone changing is a nice idea. It ended up leading me to trusting issues that I am trying to heal from and feeling better about it each day. It is better I have found to gradually get to know people and over time you get to see them in different situations. This works best and you can judge for yourself who you want to be around and who you want to avoid. It can be exhausting when you tend to have conflict with others and trying to explain your way. It is better sometimes to move on and remember all the lessons you have learned. Being strong means letting your weakness show and knowing it cannot define you or hurt you in any way. That is true power. Everyone is about hiding and shying away the terrible things, because they are the parts they hate about themselves. Strength can be in numbers, and it can also be in ideas. If you can think about a situation, you can be very tough to handle. Emotions tend to run everyone, and it just matters what is your trigger? People may find that out and try to manipulate you for it. That might be why you do not want to show yourself to begin with. The important thing is that they cannot hurt you, no matter what you think. They cannot slow you down. They cannot keep you from missing opportunities or success. It will still come to you. Some people may think that I am crazy and what do I know. I know that success does not have to make sense for it to happen. Just because I missed an opportunity to play with The Beatles does not mean I cannot have another one playing with The Rolling Stones. One failure does not equal complete failure. I notice there is this all-or-nothing type of thinking. I do not know where this came from, but I do know it exists. Just because I got an F on my test does not guarantee me an F in the course. You can get another shot in life, and you can get the right shots that you want. I have failed and made mistakes doing everything in life. I am successful because I learned the right way to do things. Failing will never equal to being a failure. Success comes when you have driven for it, and it comes when you are ready for it. Are you ready to handle it?