Did you know that someone will disagree with you over the sky being blue during the daytime? Did you know that issue could have nothing to do with you and everything to do with them? If someone fights you repeatedly with and you know you cannot exist, you must limit contact or avoid them completely. They could be doing it to both irritate you and because they do not like you. There is no point in fighting with this kind of logic because you just will lose. What about when someone insults us? Then it depends on how they make you feel, what the insult was, who was there. If it is just, you and the other person and you may end up having a warmer reaction than if the person said the insult publicly. It all comes down to situations and reactions. Holding back can sometimes be a good superpower. That has helped me in tough times holding back and knowing when something is worth your time and when it is not. When it is worth your time you can go all-in and see what ends up happening. When it is not worth your time the first thing to do is recognize the damaging effect, it is having on you. You eliminate it from your most important asset: your time. When you erase it from your time you can start to heal and get over everything. It is hard to break old patterns and harder when you think they are the right thing to do or hold some kind of power over you. You know you must move past them, but they are there in the back of your mind. Moving forward can take time, energy, and the ability to reflect and understand the truths about yourself. If you are a cold person for a long time but then change into a heart-warming one which one should we believe is real? Both are real. That could end up as progression, growing up, making better choices for yourself. Mistakes do not erase the good things you can do. They just make you look at your actions and make you live with the consequences. You can always end up doing good in this world, but there is work trying to change or be better. I hate working and understand the pain that we do not want another thing added to our chore list. Nobody has time for this and can have expectations to stay on top of this. You can make the right choice starting now. The right choice is the one that you know works for you, may jump out at you first, and start from there. One person’s right choice could be another person’s wrong choice. Life is not exactly a multiple-choice test that we can copy the answers off someone else to get ahead. Things usually do not work that way, so we must find some other way for success. Success to me is always in the last place you think to look within yourself. Find it and start bringing it into this world!