I have noticed myself feeling lost in the world, but I know that it is ok. You can go through tough moments or great moments but not understand why they happened. What you need to do when you are ever feeling lost is return to yourself. Think about why you are feeling this way and what can we do to change it. There is no actual problem when you feel lost. It is a time to rest and build yourself up for whatever the future holds. It is a time to shine and do what you need to do. I had been feeling down the last few days, but everyone feels down at one point. You pick yourself up and get ready for the next challenge. When we feel motivated that we are doing things the right way, but not getting the right results it can be upsetting. We could throw tantrums or act like children that did not get their way, but that will not help anything. I need to know and understand that I am doing the right thing and to look inside for what comes next. At times I wish being a kid again and playing games and enjoying the things I used too. When you are an adult, you still play games, but some of the games we play are not fun for everyone. What do I want to accomplish next? Being able to understand my triggers for getting upset and being able to relax when they come up. If you can find the triggers to the things that bother, you then you can find a way to solve the problem. What is the best approach for solving this issue? Reenacting the triggers that happen and make you upset and if you feel pain just let it go. It is true that humans are social creatures, and we need to be able to get along in life. We can set boundaries and be aware of others, but we can also be polite. When you can act above the projections, insults, bad behaviour from others, then you have shown patience and restraint in dealing with people. Nothing they do can touch you. They can throw stones, they can compliment and celebrate you, but nothing will touch you. You have chosen to rise above and there is always a reward for doing that. Why is it when you feel lost you could be exactly where you are supposed to be? To have a better life we must make better choices. To make better choices we need to understand what we want. When we look inside is where we will discover what we want. All the commercials on TV can try to beg me that I need their product but when I discover what I want I will get the best product possible. Whatever you do think about your actions you have taken, your relationships with others, what have you gained most in life. Society can throw pressure at you, but it can never stop you from loving yourself and what you are about. That is victim-mentality when you justify it from stopping you from loving yourself and we do not want that.
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