Are you shining as bright as you can right now? Are you feeling good about the decisions you are making and the direction you are heading? Make sure to celebrate your wins because they are important. We always tend to look at what we lose more and but always look at what you have and what you have gained over time. If people are judging you, are you can feel it, take a deep breath, and move on to what you need to be doing. Usually, I can get a vibe about someone after a little bit and can determine whether I can try to trust them. When you catch someone in a lie, what do you do? Do you let them keep it up and ignore what has happened? Do you confront them and see how they react? Sometimes you can tell when someone is lying and sometimes you will catch them in the act of lying to you. It can feel painful if this is someone with which you are close. Just know that people may lie and it does always have to do with them and not you. Remember being annoying does not give anyone the right to disrespect you. You exist just like everyone else and when you talk about being equals that is what it is about. Be the cool head in the room whenever you are feeling the heat. Sometimes adults can act like children, and it can be weird. Do your best to keep a clear head and try to diffuse any situation. The problem can become when we have no balance. When we have two people that like to argue to get their points across. Or two people that are indecisive when making decisions, which can be annoying and prevent growth. This is why it is good to have the balance of the cautious person and the risky person. Cautious + Cautious = Cautious. Argumentative + Argumentative = Anger. Cautious + Argumentative = Harmony. This is why it is good to take different approaches to the things that you go through. By looking at them at unusual ways you are getting a good balance of the issue. I am not comfortable with the people that like things a certain way and do not think creatively. I think that many things depend on a variety of factors, so that it is important to look at things outside the box. What I remember is I used to get into fights with someone because I would ask them to explain me why I was doing something. They would just argue “can’t you just do this?” “I would go no I need to understand what I am doing before I am able to do it.” Being a people pleasure, now I can experience if I do not do something that someone wanted me to do, I will get guilt-tripped into trying to do it. I just do not like the fact of feeling provoked to do something. My feelings are I want to do something because I want to do it.
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