Can you forgive yourself, your mistakes and move on? Things can be tough when they feel out of your control but just know to roll with it. You may think you have the power to control things and make them happen, but then one day it comes to bite you, and you will find out the truth that there is only so much you can control, and we need to let things go. Sometimes people think that means grab on tighter, so that nothing gets away. That will not work, either. You cannot force something that does not fit you no matter how hard you try to make it fit. Something will always stick out, and you will notice it every time. Remember it is important the way you carry yourself for yourself. It can be an energy that comes across or a feeling when you are there or pass. People can like it, feel intimidated by it, hate it, but it is yours. Now you must be careful because if you label people to early you might assume things that are not true about someone. I think you must be careful with believing the stuff you hear unless you hear it directly from the person. We can make up stories like it is some sort of game, but this is one of those dangerous games not to feel played with. You can take chances in a clever way, and you can also take chances in a negative way. The odds might be 50/50 each time, but do you want to risk it? Sometimes we risk things we wish we would not have given up, but that is the price. You known something seems good once it is gone, but when it was there you do not bother with it. Letting things go means turning to a new chapter and usually this may mean a better chapter going forward. Remember your day can change just by one smile, one look or one word and you change the way you speak and think about the day you are having. The mind is powerful, and you need to take care of it and try to hold on to all the good thoughts. Are thoughts reliable? It depends on a person, and I have seen crazy things happen with thinking. I would never underestimate the power of a thought, and we must be careful with the thoughts we hold onto because of this. The family and people that help you get up in the morning are the people to stick with in life. Caring and support will always help you and be more beneficial when you are able to have that relationship with multiple people. When you do not have as many people then you must remember to never turn the light off on yourself. Things have broken apart for me and made me think about what is happening right before good things have happened. There can be shifts and you can start to then see the finish line, which was unclear before.