Where is the love in this world? We can always create it ourselves if we feel there is no love. People want to feel good around others and want to get excited, challenged, listened to. The shy people want to be able to talk to everyone but the noise for me at least can be distracting. The environments we are in seem too intimidating. I know that I strongly prefer one on one interactions opposed to having a group setting. When it is only one person it easier to focus on the person and listening to what they have to say, easier to open and trust someone, and can try to connect deeper. With a group it becomes who has the loudest voice I find sometimes having to talk above everyone else. You can have a good group interaction, but it just seems to me it is easier to talk one on one. Trusting someone else can be scary, especially if you felt you people hurt you. It can make you on edge and wonder if it will happen again. This is why a good strategy is open to someone new like peeling an onion. Show a layer at a time and then see how it goes and judge from there. Nobody wants to be into heavy things too early with someone else and that can rub others in the wrong way. I was scared when I was alone, earlier in life. It seemed like a nightmare to try to think about things sometimes. Things are better and even when the challenges come keeping control and focus are my friends. What is it about yourself that you wished you showed more? I wish I showed my vulnerability more in public, but vulnerability can hurt you. You must make sure that you set yourself up for success. It is important and will improve your life when you do this. Plan the next step of your journey or wait and see where life takes you. Is it good to have haters in life? Yes, it is good to have haters in life no matter what anyone says. One reason is professional athletes. Do atheletes have haters that boo them and have people doubting them? Yes, I would think that they do. Would people say the money they make and the things that they have makes them a little bit successful? Probably. Having haters is not a terrible thing and you do not even need to look at it deeply. You need to just focus on how you can be a better person and figure out what you want for your life. People will always have haters, so let them hate. It gives them something to do and it can motivate you to get even stronger. Being successful is different to each person. It is up to each person to decide if they are successful or how they could be doing things better. You can complain and say you are not happy BUT you then have to make a plan that would fix why you are not happy.