Healing becomes about understanding and loving all parts of ourselves. It is about forgiving ourselves, understanding our limits, knowing what we are capable of. It can feel even better when you finally try and heal the parts of you that scare you the most. Everybody is so sensitive to their darkness, because it will frighten even the nicest person away from them. It could show you how cold someone is or what they have done and make you run away. We cannot control the way people will react to us, and I am sure we want this to be true. We can influence and do our best to charm someone, but at the end of the day we need to have our blinders up and know who we are dealing with. I like respecting people’s space because that is what I would want in certain situations. Not everything has end up public even in the social media world. We can still be the most loving of people and want to keep things away from everyone. You can feel allowed to have privacy, but you should be honest in my opinion when you are dealing with others. The move makers and takers can do their things because they want to, but we always have that choice. You think that you must go battle for battle, but do you? Can you learn when to fight and when it is simply not worth it? Fighting can be our instinct we think when someone is challenging us. The battles that I have won the most were the ones that were the most personal to me or the ones that I thought I would deal with forever. You can learn so much about life and yourself just by examining everything around you are including yourself. Why am I trying to learn about this? This is something I could end up caring about. There will always be ways to take you down or shortcuts as I call them. Using different techniques like manipulation, extortion, embarrassment, just to name a few ways people can try to hurt you. Can anything really hurt you if you are honest with yourself about what you have done and what you will do going forward? The answers lie again in each one of us and nobody is right or has the magical right way. The magical right way is inside of each of us, but only you can understand how to open your pandoras box. You never know the good things that can come to you even from the serious stuff you experienced. Lesson in failure to bring you success later. Jealousy is something we do not need to have when we can create the joy and good things we need for ourselves. You think it is crazy that you cannot act like a genie, but what if you can? What if you can give yourself everything. Are you strong enough to heal the most broken of broken parts of yourself? Can you share the moments (not all) that make you special with others?