When we feel pressure, we start to feel the walls caving in and then our thinking becomes distorted, and we can make bad decisions. We can be impulsive and do not think about a major decision then we can run into no problems or big problems in our life. When we are calm and organized, we still can make bad decisions but the chances of making a wrong decision go down. The calmest person in the room is always the one that is dominate right. The one that can handle anything and adapt to any situation is the one with the golden ticket. The shortcut can be the shortest route, but it can end up taking the longest. People like to take shortcuts and that is fine with me. Whatever you want to do is fine with me but be careful of the shortcut. When the darkness appears or the dark choice what will you do? Will you make the right choice or want to make the wrong choice. Life is weird because you can always move in life in any way. You can go forward and then go back all the way to the beginning. While, you can build up again, only to lose everything. You never know what is in store for you, but we can always oversee anything in life. We can fall and come right back up. That can be someone’s superpower and that would impress me. The person that is going through a tough time in life and not only gets up but becomes stronger after having terrible things happen to you. The person that has become confident in their ability to manage issues that when something comes up, they know the only thing they need to do is find a solution and they will be ok. Being able to get out of situations that come up and think you have no chance from getting under makes you the strongest. When you think you could not do something and then realize time later that you were able to do it. The fear in us makes us want to think twice about trying anything that could help us. It wants us to stay as we are. When we overcome fear then it has no power over us, and it knows its life is over. Fear and anxiety have taken over my life before and are not fun to deal with. They remind me of construction signs when you are driving. Giving us all those warnings of what is going on, but we are not actually in any danger. Being able to sit with the fear and knowing that it is coming up but nothing bad is happening is powerful. It is about knowing what is there and what is not there. The fear is there but only way to beat it is to push through it until it not longer is there to stop you. Do not let fear, anxiety, thoughts of what others may think stop you from being who you want to be. Let it enhance who you want to be and be a part of you. Control the fear you have and become comfortable with it.