Are you stressed out or doing well? Trying to make everything work, while keeping your sanity. Remember the big picture that everything is ok and look to the good things. We can have difficulties fitting in or making our presence known. We can still make sure to have a good attitude even if you are not comfortable in the situation. Having a good attitude has relaxed me and made me feel good about situations and myself. Letting things be and giving up on the need to control every interaction has given me peace. I thought it would make me stressed out because I would not be in direct control. Now I can relax and focus more on the interaction without worrying what will happen. Not attaching yourself to an outcome has been tough to do but has worked for me. When you work so hard you can tend to even be nervous about the things that are not work. Being able to relax gives me more room to be creative. Focusing solely on work can lead to exhaustion and a lack of desire to continue working. By taking breaks and doing what I want it gives me energy like fuel to go even further. I try to break the things I do not want to do or hate into pieces and do them. I cannot handle them if I try to do it all at once. When I was a kid, my mind would go everywhere. I like to live in my fantasy world in my mind instead of living in the real world. I could think up anything I wanted and be able to have a story unfold. Now it is great for days where things are tough, or I need a spark to go there and think about whatever feels right in the moment. To me its now about what feels right when I need to make that decision. When I want to eat what feels right to me. Do I really want to clean out the garage? If I am going to do a big project like that, I will have to balance it out with fun and relaxation to compensate. People always used to make note of how I was so quiet here and there. It was because I was simply not comfortable with the people I was around. If I can trust and enjoy being around someone then this entire other side will come out from me. Until then I notice the environment like an animal would see if it were safe or filled with predators. Whether you are alone or in a family now with technology you can share everything with everyone in the world. We all must access to things that are powerfully good and of course have their drawbacks. The important part is the ability to share whatever you want with whoever you want. You can decide what you want to be a part of. The choice to do anything is a great one and the ability to share it will make it meaningful for a long time.