People may criticize you or put you down, which is why continue being kind to yourself. In this day, others may think kindness is a weakness, but it is my strength. It has helped me understand what others are going through. When I have gone through something and not experienced kindness, I realized I never would want someone else to have go through it. I tried to always agree or go along with others because I did not like the confrontation of opposing views. That did nothing to help me and made me hurt myself which is never good. Being able to connect with others through shared experiences is important. It is ok to have confrontations with others because you could be hurting yourself by not standing up for yourself. It is important to enforce boundaries and something I have had to learn the hard way. If you want to change something pleas remember you are only able to change yourself. No matter what you may do for someone they may never be able to change. It is their responsibility to change if they want to and not yours. We all must figure things out for ourselves along the way and come to realize what is true in our lives. To have a successful life you must decide what success means to you. The problem comes when each of us tries to impose what we do and say what we do is the right way. We want to help which is the good thing but there are always many ways to see problems and each of us could see our problems and how to solve them differently. Sometimes the truth is standing right in front of us, and we do not realize it. Learning and controlling ourselves can be tough to do but we must do it. You get chances in life to stand with integrity or stand in embarrassment which one do you want to choose? There is always something we may not like about ourselves but that might be the key to us being successful. Being able to deal with the insecurity will make us stronger. Being worthy of something is understanding you deserve something just as much as everyone else. If everyone else can want a million dollars, you can too. Jealousy is unnecessary because each of us if we want something that another person has just get it. If you really want something, the human drive can lead to it happening. If hardships are possible in life, then miracles are also possible. The important part is what is best for yourself just choose that. I have become happier because I have been able to deal with my unpleasant stuff. This has led to its power going down and to compensate relief leading to happiness is happening. When we do not deal with the terrible things or ignore them, they will just grow. They will always be there in the back not dealt with. The best part is everybody is different, so people will make the choice that is right for them. Some people may brush this off and say this is a joke and others may think some of this is true. The differences in the ways we think is a positive in life.