Do you feel like you are struggling? Are things not going your way? If you are getting angry or upset everything is ok. Feeling upset just means things are not going the way you want them to go. I think that can always change at any second of the day. When someone turns you down in dating, people like to phrase it as they are rejecting your approach not you. The reason things are not going well is because your approach of what you are doing just is wrong or now is not the right time for you. What does that mean when we think of things like this, or things are going this way? It just means we must continue to build ourselves and face more experiences to help us grow. Today is not the right day but tomorrow could be. It is never the end of the world like we sometimes make it out to be. I have been worried about feeling stuck with things I am quite sure I can still do what I want, so how stuck can I be. The feeling of it lingers here with me even if the situation is not particularly bad. I always expected the best and at times perfection, which is not reasonable. The worry of not being perfect made me even more anxious with certain things. Now I know that everything is ok but sometimes it can feel scary. The biggest worry is what happens if I stay stuck forever? Then I live my life the best way I can and know I am doing the best I can. Remember you never have to explain your choices to others or accept their criticism. They may not know you or what you are doing but just see someone who looks like they know themselves. You never really know what you will get when you meet someone. The world is full of all types of people, which can be good and bad. It means you may have to meet many different people before you meet one that you connect with. I have been around the people that can easily start conversations with everyone. That is and will never be me. I am comfortable to know that I am not the social butterfly of any group. I like to do my own things and stay under the radar. Under the radar = safety. But the thing is you are not supposed to be safe in life, are you? You must take chances and risks and see where things end up. We like surprises that pop up and take us from somewhere we thought we were going to something we did not even know that we needed. Noone knows if the best has yet to come but you can still feel like there is more to go through. Think of a way you want to impact the world and start there. For fun think of something that brings you joy no matter when you do it. Some people like roller blading or me I like going to a baseball game and enjoying the food, people, and event. There are multiple things that I enjoy going on and win or lose for your team you can still have something positive to say about it.