Now is the time of year for the panicking season and the most magical time of the year. The click will start to wind down on New Years as we make a complete shift forward into the unknown. For now, we are all trying to think of ways that we will make it to the end of the year and not end up crazy. Can we have a magical and special holiday season this year? Was it a good year for you or a rough one? Did you are available for the things that are important or did you let them slide? Did you show up each day to the best of your ability and make sure you tried everything you could do? Do not let your life snowball on you because it can if you do not watch out. Controlling things is out and being is patient is in for me, and I am hating it. Accepting the things that cannot end up changed and the good that can come has put me in a forward-thinking type of mood. The bottom I hope will not feel like the bottom anymore, because of the new perspectives you can have on life. The ability to change as the times change and I have never felt like I was doing exactly what I wanted to until right at this moment. This is a peaceful feeling and everything I wanted to chase for years. Turn your tears into triumph and your pain into victory. Remember during this season anything is possible. If you need a reminder of that you can look at all the media geared at the holidays. The best things in life are waiting for you, but you must be able to recognize them and know that they are there. The love you have can make you feel strong, or it could make you feel weak. All the tools are there, so now you just must listen to yourself. You know what you need, so go directly to the source and start building. When you have an idea and think “No I should not do that,” but to me that could be exactly what you should be doing right now. “I want to give my family the best Christmas ever.” How do we do that? One way is by knowing and listening to what the family wants. Understanding each person and what gives them that happiness spirit will be the key for you to find the right thing. Everybody is different, but if you know and understand them you can figure things out. The snow and the lights are going to look beautiful in the night sky. Even if it is cold outside, the picture you can get from seeing everyone celebrating will be able to warm your heart. December is here and that means no more daylight for the people. It means we have an appearance of darkness in the background, but that does not have to be our spirit and the mood for how we are feeling.