It is important to keep a good frame of mind when dealing with things. The fear can try to stop you from doing what you want. Your mind is precious, but it can try to tell you about things that are not there. “Do not act that way because somebody could be watching.” “Somebody already does that better than you ever could.” Things of that nature that can only be there to take you down and not life you up. Its just some of the programming acting up and we need to fix what we are saying and doing about ourselves. Anxiety over thinking you have acted foolish ends up as wasted energy. I have learned it is more about trimming off the things you do not need and keeping the rest of the good stuff, you like that has been making me happy. The stuff that felt like an anchor weighing me down, making me second-guess myself. The best things I like to be are caring, attentive, try to understand what others are going through. Understanding that has always been something that has come easily for me. I can see the choices and the forks stuck in the road and where if you make a different decision, it can lead you down a completely different path. If you want to understand what I mean just draw a decision tree of your life’s choices and you will see there can be so many different things that can happen. As we know the same or similar issues can happen to multiple people in the world. This is true for both the path and the present. It is also possible to find a new issue that has never with or seen before and must decide on it. Life may even take away some decisions from you removing some of the challenging work and leave you to it. You will not necessarily be out of luck if you feel you have chosen the wrong thing. You will just end up led to different decisions to go from there. You could get the same opportunity multiple times, so never think that it is a one shot only window. I never think about it that way when it comes to my life or career, because we do not know the answer to that, so why limit the opportunities you have. I promise not to let myself down, because of the times I have felt let down. If you have expectations, like I did, then you will know it can set you up for a huge fall if you feel let down. I know that I can do this for myself, for my family, for the people I care about, because this is something I feel comfortable doing. You can try to get closer to yourself by finding reasonable ways that you can show up in your own life. When completing these and seeing that you can do it, this would build confidence for yourself that can help continue your growing. The decision tree is not going anywhere, so you just must work on what you will be deciding.