When your haters are coming for you and looking to take you down what do you do? Nothing because anything you do will make them angrier. People are going to do what they want to do, and you will always see the real side of them (if you give it enough time). You then get to decide if it is something that you can tolerate or something you will have to walk away from. What is it about the ability to work on destroying other people when you could be just building yourself up to the top. Wasted energy and no benefits will be coming to the people that want to live this way. We live where people are free to act and do as they please, but sometimes it can become too much. It would all be nicer if we all worried about how we need to improve and not look at others for this. The benefits of improving yourself are numerous, but the benefits of harming others are power, control? What is it that people really want? We can all do the things that we have to do to stay on top. Remembering that the pain will end up tolerated and what if it fuels my strength? What if the more emotional pain I try and face I become stronger and more equipped to deal with it? What if instead of running from the things and people I fear I do not move or do anything? I do not need to react to the garbage trying to seep into my living room. If you want to play in the mud, go ahead and have mud fights? I will see you, but I will not be dealing with any of this stuff. It is poison meant to go nowhere and so it can sit nowhere. Remember that just because we are adults will never mean that we do not act like children. The damage that we faced earlier in life can make dangerous reappearances when we do not expect it or think it is gone. Some of the things I love in people the most are things others would take for granted. We all have our Wishlist for what we want and the things we do not want. Putting it into motion can be tough especially if what you do not want continues to come at you. Remember that you have power, you have patience, you have strength. Those are things that can scare anybody around you. The task is not to let them beat you but to not play the game. Do you want to play garbage toss? Nope, I will be sitting away from that, but please enjoy! I am not better than anyone else and do not think anybody is better than anybody else. It is about what you are willing to accept and what you are not willing to accept. We each have our lives, want the best of it, so why not get the most out of it. Nobody gets decide for you and it is not their call.