Do we work with the jealousy we feel in our lives or the security knowing that we are strong enough to make it? Different people will end up giving you different results from this. Remember just because you made it through something easily does not mean another person will. Take that as a gift for yourself when you find out that you are good at things. Remember we can look at the loss of things and worry about how we do not have enough things, or we can acknowledge the things that are keeping our lives peaceful. You have the choices to make to better your lives. What happens when I feel hurt and someone decides to kick me down? You get back up stronger, wiser, and more ready for the next thing to happen. It is all you can really do. Life can be a cycle where you are wondering why is this happening to me now? To me, there is a reason this stuff is happening to you. You will understand what it means to you more than I would. It can be positive where you are wondering how life got so good. It could be negative where you are like this is eighth thing to go wrong this week. The response is always more important than what action happened to you. The response is what we will remember. Did they give up or did they try harder once again to build their dream life? It is hard to say what to do in any situation, but we all gain our footing and figure out what is the answer for us. If you are worried about how, you are connecting or what you understand about yourself just take a deep breath. Think about what you love right now about life or what you would love and then thing about what you do not love. Remove the stuff you do not love and think about, gather, enjoy the things that you do love. If you want twenty cars to work on, then go buy twenty cars. If you want to own a home in multiple countries because you love traveling, then do it. This can work in multiple ways. This can work in your job search and dating. It is important to remember the things that you want and the things that you do not need by you. Eliminate the jobs from your job search that do not get you excited or motivated for it. There will always be something that comes along that will check those boxes. You need to understand yourself inside and out and then you can make informed decisions. For example, I love Baseball. I would like to see a game at Fenway Park in Boston. I should buy tickets and travel out there, so that I can enjoy the game I wanted to see. I like to write blogs and try to create new things in unexpected and expected ways. Then I should start writing, creating, and seeing if it makes me happy. If it does not make me happy then we switch the focus.