Take it slow and make sure you are completing everything. I was learning today that taking on too much was not doing me any good. I want to be able to do five hundred things at once, but sadly I am unable to right now. This gave me a lesson in slowing down and try to solve it one problem at a time while regaining my energy. I felt let down at first, but there is nothing to feel let down about. I can still step up for myself and take control but need to slow down the pace and make sure I am doing each thing correctly. Noticing this behavior today was an improvement and even if things felt difficult all we ever ask from ourselves is our best. That is all you can ever expect. If you desire perfection, then it can be a challenging road to go ahead. Do you like surprises or want to be surprised? I think people would say it would make the days more exciting, so sign me up for it. We like things that break up our routines because we were never expecting them to happen. These can be wonderful things, and they can be terrible things, but it shakes up daily life. You may even find yourself going through a period of this and wondering what is going on. I think at that point you just need to sit back and buckle up because life is taking you on a ride whether you want it or not. Why can’t we just have the good moments? Then the good moments would not be as special or meaningful to you. Why can’t we know what life’s surprises are for us? Then it would not be a surprise, and we do not usually plan for these kinds of surprises, they just happen. Do you wish it were your birthday every day? No, because then it would not be unique or special to you. It lacks imagination and we cannot be having that. We think that silence is scary, but it never has to be. It can be anything, but scary if you want it to be. You think you cannot pick up what the other person is thinking when we are quiet. This can harm making connections, so it is natural it can put people on edge. All I try to think is everyone will be different. You could have someone you talk five thousand words a minute and you could have someone you could go twenty-four hours without talking. We can get comfortable to the range of others and do not criticize or judge them for this. I am going to stick with the everybody is weird motto I have going in my head. There is certainly a range between people, and we can pick up and gauge the range when we are meeting others. They say first impressions mean everything and I believe that. It is better to have a strong start and get worse after then to start bad and be good after. Changing a no into a yes vs changing a yes into a no.