Usually, you figure yourself out as you go along on your journey. Some people think they figure out too late, but you can always make changes. I understand as we get older our routines become harder and harder to break. Some people will never be able to have a good relationship with another and that is ok. Focusing on yourself sounds easy, but it can be difficult. People sometimes focus on others that they think are doing something right. What we should be focusing on though is how are we doing and what do we need to do to grow? It can be hard when you directly see others and think they are getting special treatment over everyone, but that may not be so. You never really know the full picture of what is going on with anyone else. We need to be focusing ourselves inward currently and putting the focus directly on us. Scott making $10,000 on the Boston Celtic game really does nothing for my future. Sure, I could bet on the team, but they already won that time and there will be no guarantees I will win. I do not even like using others for inspiration because no matter what you will have to figure things out your way. Someone else’s way may not help you to get what you are looking for. It will, but I like to think we each have our journey and that belongs to us. If 299/300 people are all turning right, I will always be the one turning left. Fighting that does not stop it from being one of my truths. When you feel the differences with someone, one way to change things is to look at what you do have in common with them. You can try to see if there is a common goal with them. If it is one of those situations where nothing will work, then you can feel free to walk away and try again later. The shame and stigma of being wrong can feel like a heavy weight. I have gotten in my head too much before and then realized that nobody is perfect. The weather forecaster gets the weather wrong and that is their job. Maybe today is the first day of the year they got it wrong and are mainly accurate. You really do not know other people’s situations, which is again why it is best to stick to your own. If someone asks for your help, then jump in. Do what you want and do it to the best of your ability. If you are in a tough situation then keep doing the best you can, and make sure to make your move. It is that time of the year of campfires, fireworks, baseball. The summer is usually a nice period to reflect on things as they slow down. You can also relax and get yourself ready for when the September craziness comes in. What is one idea that would make things better? If everyone took 1 minute of their time each day that they wish they were someone else and replace it with something positive you are doing.