Why does it have to be like this? Why do I have to feel the pain when things are going well? Have these questions come to you lately or before? Do you wonder why you feel this way about things. The pain ends with either time or when you want it to end. When you stopping letting it control you and you start controlling it. Now if it is severe enough, you will have to go through time. There are always ways to honor someone, let them know how much they mean to you, or say what will help you move on. I think you can always say what you need to know that you have dealt with it. Life is too hard to feel crippled by pain while dealing with certain things for too long. I know this as I had my own things I have been going through. One of the things is I get mad at myself from time to time when I realize I wasted time doing this. This is not fair to me, and nobody deserves any kind of false pressure upon them. What did you do to cause your demons? Was it all your fault? Look at who you are and what you are representing right now and see if it fits with who you want to be. Have you thought of switching lives with your pet because they do not know any better and in a way, can do what they want? Things would be much more free and scarier at the same time to me. When you want to enjoy the sun and all you see is rain around you, what do you do? You spread the sunshine even if it is only in your zone. People can scare me because they can do the most unpredictable thing because we are all different. You must be prepared for anything and ready to see anything, always. Being protective about the things you care about is important. It shows you have something you value and that something you will try. You just do not want to go overboard, like most things. We cannot eat too much bacon, and we cannot be too protective, or we will look weak. Weak is something we must never be weak because weak means you will get taken advantage of. You can get taken advantage of sadly and that is a drawback. The good thing is that if you get taken advantage of you can always come back if it happens again. But remember, too much of something becomes bad. Too much getting taken advantage of and you will feel hurt. Do you want to feel physical pain, feel perceived as weak, or let everyone know an insecurity you have? These are just some of the tough things each of us can go through at some point. It is sad that some of these will happen, but there is no evidence behind any of it being true. There is no evidence that you must believe anything that you know is not true. There is no evidence that if everyone believes you are these things, you are these things.