Do you like it when things get dramatic and more intense in life? Some people love the drama and want it to follow them everywhere. I am not one of these people, but they do exist. Why would anyone want drama in their life? Isn’t life already complicated without having to deal with more drama? Some people who grow up in homes where chaos and drama can happen, thrive in it. Having drama in their lives is what they know and what works for them best. If you do not like the drama, then I suggest you stay out of it or avoid situations that can lead to it happening. Some people may also want the excitement that comes with the drama. Life can be boring, and we all can get into routines. Why not shake things up with some drama. My drama-filled days are over. It gets exhausting to keep up with each battle. People can start the drama they want, and I will be watching from the sidelines with my popcorn. I want peace and not drama. I want the relaxation and calming influence not the blood flowing quickly. This is where values become a significant factor. Someone else may love the drama and want that and that is their choice. I would not be a good match for them and that does not mean either of us is bad or wrong. I always think being who you are is fine if you are not hurting anyone. It is the people who act fake, tell me what I want to hear, kiss my ass where I am like wait a minute. Drama can show up in families, spouses, at work. You may have control over it happening and you also may not. What do you want for yourself? I want to hear the ocean, hear the birds chirping, feel the breeze. What do you want from your relationships and from the people around you? Usually, most people want to feel safe, trusted, and respected, etc. When you feel heard and have a fun time around someone your feelings for them will grow over time. However, a great part of life is on any day and at any given time we can go a new direction. We can correct a mistake, or we can choose a new path in life. We can meet new friends or get married and solidify a good relationship. People will always remember how you made them feel which is why it is important to me to do the right thing when I am around others. What does the right thing mean? That is up to each person. What type of things feel right for you and which ones give you the ick (hate that word but need to use it). There are always different people out there who will share their experiences with you. Getting the different viewpoints and comparing it to what you have experienced to me is critical thinking about life. Whatever you want for yourself, I hope it is something good.
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