Remember the time you had to go through something not knowing how to deal with it? Do you remember coming out the other side? I hope you gave yourself a reward for being brave and dealing with an issue. We need assurance and knowing that our efforts feel recognized even if that is just by ourselves. Have you ever been to a place and then realized the longer you stayed there the worse things got? This place is not for you that can happen. Places like people can be one of those things that are not for everyone. Do not feel discouraged if you had a bad trip, but please remember the experience if it was good. Feeling disappointed or angry can take up too much energy, so it is better to feel used when there is something going on. We have the power to take ourselves out of the bad situations and try to give us new homes in good situations. The first thing to figure out is why is this a tough situation? What is going on and how is it impacting me? Then you can start to think of what type of places do I want to live in? Not everyone has means to leave or do the thing they want right away, they can plan and know where they are going. A tricky thing about living can be trying to move around the distractions. Anxiety, fear, anger, to name a few things that stop you in your tracks. Jealousy, envy, toxicity can hurt your personal relationships and stop them dead. Avoiding these things, going through, and doing what we want can be a big part of this. Just make a note every time you had to fight your own personal demon. Some people might fly through wondering why others are feeling these things, but we remember that everyone is going through something. The alarm bells are always ringing and so we need to be careful. Nobody likes to admit what they are working on with others because sharing vulnerabilities can spread like wildfire. Yes, I will see you and make comments about what you are doing, do not worry. Yes, I saw when you were doing that thing last week and I already saved you the trouble and told everyone. There are people like that out there, but who cares because you are not ashamed of yourself. I thought you were giving yourself a reward for being brave. Remember that actions have consequences and these are not your battles to settle. Things always get taken care of as we noted above with the people are always going through something. This is something you can just move on and focus on what you are trying to bring into your life. You might have ended up made fun of, but you are also thriving and surviving. The other person is jumping in the gutter, so we feel sad but move on. There is more of life to discover, but are you brave enough for the job?
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