We do not like it when we feel lied or disrespected. We want people to be upfront about what they want and are after and not leave us confused. That way we can think about if it would be good or bad for us. Getting over these types of things can be difficult. It can even end up feeling like this was never an issue for you. But remember that your experience still matters and can be true. You need to see always what your triggers are. That is a good skill with anything. When something pops up and you just want to rage out make a note of it for later. It can help and over time you can slow it down. I have done that with anger for one, judgement, trying to stay in the moment. These are always things to learn from that will help you. You can always find something new out about what is going on with you and others. Knowing our strengths and knowing the weakness/triggers will save us time. I could go with the I wish I knew this before, but I know and follow it now so there can be a reason for that. Remember I like my boxes open, so when you try to close it, we will just be fighting back and forth. This is what can help create a disconnection or struggle between people. You can feel lost, loved, out in the cold, admired, but there is something meant to disrupt this connection, and we must listen to it. Taking into consideration the connections that do not work can be just as important as the ones you want to stay forever. Both have their process and both will be important to learn and grow from. There is always something to feel worked on, so all the perfect humans can keep doing what they are doing but I will stay in my lane. You can get things done, feel loved, have a good sense of direction when you think about what you want. Values, things we believe are true, can end up kept just like connections by staying strong. There are many things that will go through similar processes, and you just need to know which one to use to make it through it. You never need to feel lost when you find out more about yourself and what you want to happen. There will be something that excites you. You can be a fighter and stick to the word nothing, but the only person that is doing harm to is you. It is never a good strategy to go that route because it stays the same and is a lie. Wouldn’t it be better to stick with the honest answer? It is your life and you do what you want with it. We know we only have so much time, we know there are things we want to work on, we know there are things we can accomplish. When you think about it the sooner the better you start the program you will get what you want.
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