Its time to watch yourself, but everything is great. This is scary to me, but you never know what is going on. People can think they end up invited and try to push on your buttons but in the end, we are the ones with the stop signs. You can put up a sign for no trespassing and if you deal with it, you should be good. What people end up doing and choosing is never up to you and you focus on yourself. When you let the control and everything else go you may feel better. Things can turn in your favor while you go through them. You can go into something thinking one way and end up leaving it with a completely different feeling. You can bounce back from all this stuff and continue to move forward. While others are stuck, you know what needs to happen and can make it happen. Feeling able to know what your answers are is good. You can be scared, you can not know what will happen next, you can still be your own success. You get to create your life, so if you are complaining you must go to yourself first to get things moving the way you want. You can blame everything in the mirror, but will they hear you and change? Will it make a difference for you or them? Do not worry if it feels like too much for you to handle. Just try to take it in the biggest pieces you can at that time. You will have it accomplished after some time and feel good about it. The worst is when you feel let down about something not going your way or anything in general. You have no reason to feel let down when you are growing because it is going to build you up not there to break you down. The purpose of this is not some torture room for you to be in but think of doing things in the best way that you can imagine. You cannot feel let down when you think like that. Or you can always dumpster dive and go full and trash yourself. A trash party for one does not make you bounce back quickly. Go for the door that smells like success, not trash. If you are having a good relationship with others, then focus on continuing to grow your relationships. If that is not going well, then focus on what would make you stronger at this moment. What would be the cherry on top of the sundae and then decide to try and get it. It could take five minutes or years to execute but you can continue to look at what you want. The jungle is not worth fighting but improving upon yourself. It is about feeling comfortable while finding out who you are. What would help shape you right now if you would let it in? Think about the truth of who you are and where you are going next.
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