Man, you are mad and I can feel that right now. I get it and have been there with you and lets all throw something in our room for a second. Just pump the breaks and take a second to get your breath and everything bad. Is it really that serious? Is there a way for you to be able to get over this? We need to know if this is a misstep or a minefield we about to hit. If it is a minefield do your best to minimize damage. That means its time to put on your firefighter hat and start putting out the fires starting with the biggest or most damaging one. Remember getting upset and fighting the obstacle you must deal with anyways will not help you. When we know, we will have to put in the extra work to fix the issue then it is better to get working and leave the crying for bedtime. Remember we may feel the world punishes us but never ever punish yourself. That is the worlds job and not yours to take to heart. Yours is to make yourself as comfortable as possible with respecting your identity and learning it the best way you can. We make winner and not losers in this factory are another way of phrasing it. Let us back on the journey as quickly as we can and see what kind of miracles we can try to create for ourselves. What about the way we were able to maneuver out of that tough conversation and still got we wanted? That was a pretty good interaction that we need to keep tabs on. What about that issue that came up and you were able to come up with a plan and saved yourself future time and money? That should be celebrated and remembered as well. The stock of the negativity has got to go and get replaced by some of this. The refusal/fighting/giving up attitude of not be able to complete something that is reasonable for you to be able to accomplish will not cut it in the big world. That will get you thrown out to live forever on the curb. I will not be living as a curb person today because it is not my style right now. Have you advanced to the next level in life and defeated the boss? That would be weird and interesting if life worked that way like a video game. Hopefully you can be staying in good standing with everything that is ending up thrown at you right now. It is only Monday and the chaos seems ready and stirring in the background. Don’t you want some panic or uncertainty thrown at you right now? Would that make things easier and lighter for you? Or would knowing that you are doing the best you can, making solid choices, trying to figure out what you want to do next. Life has a clock and it is ticking but you are already ahead of the game.
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