Feeling Ignored is Good

It does not feel good when you feel ignored and avoided by other people around you. It can hurt you in separate ways. Sometimes we will even end up turning on ourselves for what the world tells us. We all deal with this kind of pain, but we never want it to come back again. The more we stress on the outer love that we want, the more we need to look inside ourselves for the same love. When I am feeling ignored, then what I must do is make sure I never ignore myself internally. This means making sure I am in the best possible shape and condition to be able to continue living my life the way I want to. Feeling ignored means that you can do whatever you feel like. There are no people around to judge you for the choices that you make. We can be free and spend time doing the things we want and need to be doing to grow ourselves. This has personally given me more time to reflect how I am feeling in my writing. I am able to read new books about the subjects that are interesting to me. Also, I can go out in the world and enjoy everything about the nature of the world. I always feel calm, good at ease when I am outside on a nice bench looking out at the sky. When I can see the stars at night knowing there is so much going on in the world. Knowing that there are so many things going on and feeling good in the moment is peaceful to me. We can always learn from the situations that go on in our lives each day and try to be better and do right the next time. If you feel ignored, try to remember, not one single person is more important than another. No matter what it may look like. We are all creatures just trying to have a great life. Each of us deserves the right to have that. I wanted to be able to try to start a community where people can feel free to engage each other and not feel ignored. There is always something valuable to learn about another person or the experiences that each of us goes through. I know we tend to shun and feel uncomfortable with the people, views, trends, that we do not like. We do we ever try to understand their views. From what I see, we tend to dismiss the opinions, values, identities that does not match up with our own set and then discredit the person for having those values. Feeling ignored can also be a good thing because you are not on people’s radar. You are free to embrace everything about yourself and try to understand the parts of yourself you do not like. If you wish to be a different person, do not be. Always be yourself, because if there are things you do not like about yourself then start with gratitude for your strengths before moving into your weaknesses. Deal with the secure things about yourself before you deal with the insecure things. The insecure things are going to be tougher to understand, tougher to change, so try to build yourself up before jumping into the deep end.