How are your adventures going? Are you getting reckless and out of control? Are you following everything step by step? The adventure makes me want to go back to bed and not face it ever. Do I really want to put in all my effort to get what I am receiving? Is it worth it? I would hope that you are either looking for something else or putting in the passion in your effort and trying to make things work. The effort will not feel wasted because you are still learning and doing as well as you can. You want to be growing, and you are in ways you may not even see. Are you the same person you were years ago? Sometimes we can stay stuck and stay as the same person. Other times, we can embrace learning and wanting things to change, so they do. Remember that people will show themselves to you given enough time. I would much rather embrace my weird now and not try to hide it. Hiding it sounds like work and I do not want to put my effort there. I will look for other places to excite me and once I find it you better watch out. Is Doomsday here? No let us reframe this even if you think it is. People have gone through the situations you have, and we have all felt loss. Does it feel like you are alone? It does feel like you are. There are ways to change that or there are ways to cope with that. I would think you can make the effort to reach out, and you can make the effort to expose yourself if the pain is great. Letting the frustration out in healthy ways can be one of the best growing movements we can make. Remember anger can be good, but it also breeds of demons. Controlling the beast is important and that action can take you places. Are you disciplined and focused or will the first distraction sink you? Remember you need the passion and excitement, but you need to be able to stand life’s challenges. When do you end up saying no for the fifth time are you going to curl into a ball or just start watching daytime tv? Are you going to pick yourself up and move on to the next round. Remember in certain situations you just one yes as well. Take it easy on yourself and look at what is going on. We do not give ourselves enough credit. I used to treat myself as a punching bag, but that is gone. Taking yourself down is not going to make anything better and letting others do that will lead to the hole of misery. If you want the whole of misery, please be my guest. It has absolutely nothing for you. We can be strong and thrive, but we need to know not to panic. We need to stay focused and keep our excitement. The best thing we can do is making things calmer and not let things feel riled up for you.