It is crazy to think that anyone has a solution to everything. We guess and make the best choices we can with the information that we can. I would hope we try to do the right thing, but motives personal, etc. seem to get in the way and that is just our nature. We can bring out the good that we have and it will make a difference. Now everyone’s version of good will be different, which makes it impossible for everyone to be align with you. None of that matters when you feel focused on the truth of what you need right now in your life. When you choose not to settle and look for other possibilities that are out there. We need to be careful because our mind can get us into trouble. We have the ego, which can sometimes make it difficult for us and project false realities. Insecurity is a bad one because of the doubt it makes you feel. That feeling drives your skin crawling like you can see in a horror movie. The only way this has worked for me is to throw that part aside. Have you felt thrown in the gutter by somebody else around you? Maybe. It does not need to bother you because no matter what that person cannot be you. Comparisons and ego can be where the evil side lurks. There can be caution to things that our mind brings up, and this is two of those. You are different and that is acceptable. You have traits that others may look up to and you need to be looking up to. You think it is good when another person validates you, but when you validate yourself, you can become free. I have seen the look of disappointment thrown around and it is not for me anymore. The pain brings the clouds and the rain in, but the confidence makes the sun feel brighter for you. You may have dug yourself into a pit, but you if you can get yourself into it, you can get yourself out of it. Forgiveness always works for those times when you did something you regret. Taking advantage of a situation can mean using your strengths to be able to overcome whatever has been keeping you down. You can see things that can come into your life, and you do not see other things. The fear that comes up, takes over, and makes you do crazy things. You feel like you let something slip away and then it is gone. It is ok if something ends up slipping away because you do not know what is next or what would have been. Acceptance is an effective way to go there and stay hopeful. For example, you could end up losing a part to somebody else and then end up at the same time getting the job that gives you an Oscar. Things that slip away deserved to feel mourned and remembered. They should also be a way for you to grow and lead you to positive results.