The things we can do to make ourselves happy can be crazy, they can be funny and they can be helpful for you. If you want to fight tooth and nail, please be guest. I want to be on the opposite side doing my own thing and trying to stay on course. Neither way is wrong, but you are free to go your own way. The sooner the better and you are ready even if you do not think you are. Life has a way of showing you where you are at and where you need improvement. Remember to me you will always need to be able to grow is a better way of phrasing it. You can go years and years not seeing something and then one day you see it a separate way and it blows your mind! We can expect to be surprised a few times here and there. Never underestimate your goals or your future and try to think of it feeling completed in your own way. It can end up done when you think about it and realize you have everything needed for it. You can check off that you have felt like celebrated, felt kicked in the stomach, like you can accomplish anything, that the world is falling apart at this very moment. A variety of options coming at you and the speed could be slow or it could be fast, but you will not know. Life can be a guessing game, so that means you have a chance of being right. Try to visualize and see things the way you want them. You can make plans on how you will get there, but seeing might be believing. It would not hurt to try something like that and let us be honest we have the time. Why are you fighting what you want to become or selling yourself short? The situations are different, but the objective of completing our goals remain. If you wanted it, you would find a way to make it happen. Do not put up the excuses because we always only want answers. So, we can be successful if we love something and can see us doing it for a long time. We want to have freedom over our choices. We need to be sharing our interests instead of forcing them upon others. One is not better than the other, but both can be good for each of you. I do not care about the drama. If you want to say that I live in a cave eating spiders, then maybe you are right. You never know what the world has in store for you. Disappointments just mean you were not ready at that moment, but we take what we learn. You just need the one door to open for everything to fit perfectly. It seems more difficult than it is when you think about it. The pathway is there, but it is up to each of us to want to see it. There may not be a tomorrow, but there is an amazing today!